5 Reasons why men always ask you for SEX

On to salubrityhub we feed you interesting tips on living a good and healthy life, including physical, emotional, and spiritual wellbeing. So let this post serve as a tip if you are wondering why men seem to always approach you for things like sex especially when you expect more from them.

Many ladies are bothered that men who approach them more often than not, just want to ask for sex. Men will be men ;-), but not all men lack sexual control, so when it gets too much, you realize that it's time to do some introspection.

The way some ladies complain that men are always asking them for sex is quite alarming 😤. Why sex? why not something somewhat more serious? Well, let's get into it, shall we?

1. It's probably your dress sense.

Your dress is one of the most important things to look at, it says a lot about you, remember the popular saying "How you dress is how you're addressed".

Remember that men are moved by what they see, there's also a popular saying, "They can see, but they can't touch". But you see when you dress provocatively, you make certain types of men want a taste of your soup.

For example, ladies who wear sleeveless shirts and gowns show their armpits, and the side of their breasts, which will definitely turn men on, talk less of ladies who wear short gowns that show their laps and their cleavages, which will most definitely turn men on. So ladies should watch what they wear and cover their bodies properly so they would be addressed well.

2. You touch men a lot

Do you always touch, peck, hug, hold hands, and wrap yourselves with men? This is also a flag to watch, flirting is one of the fastest ways to send the "I want you" signals.

Learn to control your emotions around the opposite sex, dial down the touching, and also try not to be touched ;).

Name-calling can also be part, flirting also involves sweet name-calling and gives the same vibe as touching.

3. You try to test your abilities 

Are you wearing provocative dresses with the intention of turning him on? You want to see if you are sexually admirable to him and want to see how far he can respond to your seduction?
Men are turned on by women whether you seduce them or not. A woman's body is built to turn a man on, you don't need that test at all.

4. Watch what you post online

Many videos online nowadays are sexually provocative videos because some ladies are seeking attention out there, which will definitely work, like I said, men are moved by what they see and they would probably approach you because of those videos that they have seen and want a taste of that "sexy" body, so if you have a load of that on your profile, you might want to look into it, its possibly why you get DMs like "hello pretty, let's meet tonight".

5. Your mindset and expectations.

If you keep telling yourself all men are dogs, you'll attract dogs, for real! it's the way it works. Some ladies have certain experiences that make them think that all men are the same, and that's understandable, we all have different upbringings, but it's time to think differently.

Believe in your ability to attract good things, good people, and wonderful experiences.

In conclusion, watch your dress sense, dial down the way you flirt (if you do), watch what you post online, and change your mindset and expectations about men. 

A virtuous lady dresses well to cover her body and comports herself maturely around men. You will be addressed the way you dress. If they are always asking you for sex. Check what is wrong and fix it. God bless us all